The image of everyone playing happy families at gatherings, occasions and events for example Christmas, weddings, funerals, birthdays and so, is sometimes a misguided one.On many an occasion a family member can experience resentment, stress, anxiety or just a general feeling of being on edge. And what’s more they are able to justify how they are feeling;they have cause to feel that way!Often just thinking about the upcoming event is enough to greatly increase the stress/anxiety levels experience